Second Annual Road Trip

We weren’t even through our first road trip before I started thinking about the next one. Rost was such a wonderful driving and camping companion that I knew right away this trip was a success—and that many more miles were ahead of us. At the time, I didn’t yet realize we’d be taking back-to-back cross-country trips in the years to come.

The route was planned. Stops were booked. Snacks were stocked. Gas was topped off. The truck was packed and waiting.
The toilet, however, had other plans.

Just a few hours before we were set to leave on a 5,000+ mile trip, it sprang a leak. It wasn’t a hardware store run I had planned or a skill I wanted to learn, but I was grateful the tank failed before we left for two weeks rather than while we were gone. New skill unlocked.

I’ve driven across Montana more times than I can count, so I wanted this route to feel more adventurous than hours on the interstate. We headed north to Browning, stopped for lunch in Great Falls, then traveled east on Highway 87 through Belt, Moccasin, Grass Range, Mosby, and more before reaching our campground in Glendive. After nine straight hours of driving—not counting stops—we were still in Montana.

We slept fitfully next to very active train tracks (I can’t recommend Riverview RV Park), so we were happy to pack up early and move on. Our destination was Cousin Jett, Uncle Jesse, and Aunt Jaiden. With only three hours to drive, we headed straight to Mandan, North Dakota, stopping briefly at the border for photos and fresh air.

Rost and Jett quickly reconnected in true toddler fashion.

One night wasn’t nearly enough for two little boys to burn off their energy. Soon it was morning and time to head out again. On our way to visit my cousins, Mark and Beth Ann, we stopped at Sandy, the World’s Largest Sandhill Crane, and at a mall where Rost and I used “Mommy and Me” toilets together—an experience I won’t soon forget.

Before long, we crossed into Minnesota and arrived at a familiar door in Willmar.

This region deserves its own future trip, but this time Brian was eager to keep moving. Our next stop would end up being his favorite.

The drive to Green Bay, Wisconsin was thankfully uneventful. We skipped major stops so we could check into our hotel, explore around Lambeau Field, and get to bed early for Brian’s tour the next morning.

While Brian explored Lambeau, Rost and I played at a nearby cheese-and-football-themed playground. It wasn’t something I ever imagined myself doing, but it turned out to be surprisingly fun. Lambeau is impressive—equal parts history and business genius. As a lifelong Steelers fan, it pains me to admit we’ll be back someday for a game.

From Green Bay, we headed toward Michigan. Shortly after crossing into Illinois, we witnessed a terrifying accident. A vehicle flipped multiple times, and for several minutes I was convinced we’d just seen someone lose his life. When the driver regained consciousness, I finally felt some relief, but I was shaken. Brian took over driving for the rest of the day. We skipped our planned stops and went straight to the hotel to decompress. Thankfully, there was a McDonald’s in the parking lot, so dinner didn’t require getting back in the car. We fell asleep watching Willy Wonka—Rost now requests that a future road trip include a chocolate factory.

To reset after the tough day, we spent the next morning at Wellfield Botanical Garden in Indiana. Rost took photos and smelled every flower he could before we continued through Ohio and into Pittsburgh to stay with Sam and Cait.

Rost was not happy that we weren’t driving straight to Gimmy and Pappy’s that day. He was convinced Sam and Cait “probably didn’t even have anything fun.” Five minutes later, Sam pulled out a box of her childhood toys, and all complaints disappeared. They played, ran around, ordered delivery, and watched Peppa Pig on a giant screen.

Sam and Cait live just a five-minute walk from the Pittsburgh Zoo and Aquarium, so we spent a few hours there before continuing to Gimmy and Pappy’s.

The main reason for this trip was my 20-year high school reunion. I still can’t believe it’s been 20 years since Turkeyfoot. It was wonderful to see familiar faces—many for the first time since graduation. About half our class attended, and I even made my first TikTok.

The day after the reunion was our only unplanned day. We spent it with family—getting ice cream, picking corn at a roadside stand, and decorating Eat’n Park cookies with Gimmy.

Then it was time to repack and head west. As tent campers, we often had entire campground sections to ourselves. Eby Pines RV Park in Indiana gave us a peaceful and memorable first night on the return trip.

The next morning started early so we could celebrate the 39th anniversary of “The Event of 1986.” We visited the Shedd Aquarium, where I sang “Baby Beluga” with my baby-beluga-loving boy to a real beluga whale.

We followed that with lunch with Ian’s mom—one of those unexpected, meaningful moments that make travel special.

In Iowa, we settled into our campsite with our newest stuffed family member: Baby Beluga.

To break up the long drive to South Dakota, we stopped at several roadside attractions, including Rost’s favorite—the Corn Palace. For a corn-loving farm boy, it was magical.

Before re-entering Montana, we visited Dignity of Earth & Sky, Wall Drug, and Dinosaur Park.

On our final driving day, we stopped at the Museum of the Rockies to see dinosaur fossils—mostly discovered in Montana. There’s nothing quite like staring at a T. rex before lunch.

The road will always call to me. But as we continue building our life in northwest Montana, nothing compares to coming home and falling asleep in your own bed.

Tree Removal

Brian’s Aunt Terri – who is our next door neighbor – needed a couple of trees taken down on her property. While we do have a professional arborist in the family, she opted to call in a crew of taller (and perhaps slightly more seasoned) pros for the job.

It turned into quite the spectacle. So much so, we had to make popcorn just to keep up with the entertainment.

Gimmy & Pappy in Montana

After a canceled trip at the start of 2024 and months of counting down the days, weeks, and months until their next scheduled visit, Gimmy and Pappy finally made it to Montana! It was an emotional trip filled with unforgettable moments, including celebrating Christmas all over again (Rost was thrilled by the surprise of a second Christmas), my parents experiencing the delightful chaos of a toddler birthday party (Happy 3rd Birthday, Rost!), and creating some truly amazing memories together.

Unfortunately, during their visit, my 91-year-old grandmother, Gommy, experienced a serious decline in health. This heartbreaking turn of events sent my incredible mom on an early return trip to Pennsylvania to be with her mother in her final moments.

Grieving my mom’s early departure and the loss of my beloved grandmother, I was determined to make the most of the time left with my dad. We shared some beautiful moments: skipping rainbow-colored rocks into the iconic waters of Lake McDonald, soaking in the healing warmth of Wild Horse Hot Springs, and indulging him with as many sweet treats as I could without pushing him into a sugar-fueled diabetic meltdown.

I’m deeply grateful for this time with my parents. Losing my grandmother has been a poignant reminder of how precious our time with loved ones truly is. I’m already looking forward to making more memories when Rost and I make our annual trip back to the East Coast in early June.

Xoxo.

Christmas Time

I’ve always been a firm believer in the sacred rule: no Christmas decorations until after Thanksgiving. But then, along came one irresistibly charming toddler, and suddenly, I’m the kind of person who would happily string up Christmas lights in August if it brought him joy. So this year, the moment Halloween bid its spooky farewell, we dove headfirst into the Christmas spirit, determined to stretch the season’s magic as far as we could. Here’s a little glimpse into our wonderfully extended holiday adventure. Xoxo.

Pennsylvania 2024

Another summer has arrived, and with it, our annual trip back to Pennsylvania to visit my side of the family. Before Rost came along, I used to make this trip every four years or so, but now I’ve been thoroughly enjoying the tradition of going back every year.

Rost needed a haircut before our travels and specifically asked to visit Nate the Barber—his friend’s dad. 

Freshly trimmed and with his backpack expertly packed, Rost was ready to hit the road early the next morning.

Our journey from Kalispell to Pennsylvania involved two flights. Rost charmed the Delta flight crews and got the royal treatment along the way. We landed in Pittsburgh, slightly exhausted but excited to start our adventure.

Rost soaked up the humid country air and loved spending time in nature with my parents. I, on the other hand, relished having someone else cook for us (huge thanks to Rost and Gimmy).

The next day, we picked up a rental car and headed to a small town near Hershey for a big family celebration. First, we attended the beautiful wedding of my cousin Nathan and his lovely bride, Rachael. Then it was off to Hershey Park for family time, complete with rides, laughter, and, of course, a chocolate-induced coma.

On our way back to my parents’ house, several of us stopped at a park near Harrisburg to play a real-life game of Chutes and Ladders. Not to brag (okay, maybe a little), but I won—and didn’t let my family forget it!

Back in Confluence, I had the joy of reconnecting with one of my favorite people, Mrs. Ruppel. She was my 1st and 2nd-grade teacher and has been a cherished family friend for years. Catching up with people like her is one of the best parts of these trips.

My brother surprised Brian and me with a rafting adventure down the Lower Yough. Even though I grew up near the Youghiogheny River, I’d only ever floated the Middle section. It was an amazing day filled with laughter and some fun new friends. While we were on the river, Rost was thoroughly spoiled by the family, so he didn’t miss out on the fun either.

Pappy planned a special outing for Rost and his cousin Parker at a nearby farm we’d visited last year. Rost was over the moon with all the tractors—some new ones had even joined the lineup since our last visit. Needless to say, we’re already looking forward to going back next year.

Before nap time that day, Pappy pulled over by a creek and made sure both Rost and Parker reeled in a fish. It was such a sweet and memorable moment.

Our next stop was Washington, D.C., to meet Brian’s Uncle Tommy and Aunt Tina at the National Zoo. Despite the humid heat, Rost kept up his boundless energy. Ironically, his favorite animal at the zoo turned out to be a cow—something we could have easily seen right next door to our house in Montana!

We wrapped up the day with dinner in D.C. with one of my former teammates from Parnall Law. We’ve both moved on to new roles but have stayed in touch. It was great to catch up before heading back to southwestern Pennsylvania.

The timing of our trip was perfect, as we got to celebrate my sister-in-law’s 50th birthday. The intimate family dinner on Friday night was actually a decoy for a surprise party the next afternoon, which was a total hit.

Before heading back to Montana, we squeezed in one last big event—cheering on my oldest nephew, Ben, at his football game.

Thanks for all the fun and memories, East Coast. We’ll see you again next summer! Xoxo

Huckleberry Picking

This season has been exceptional for huckleberries in NW Montana! Not only have they been abundant and easy to find, but they’re also larger than I’ve seen in previous years. I’m especially grateful that my in-laws prefer to pick them by boat—it’s definitely the best way to do it!

Taking advantage of the beautiful weather, we spent the first part of the Fourth of July out on Flathead Lake, soaking up the sunshine and enjoying the cool, crystal-clear waters. I do hope this becomes a yearly tradition. Before I got married I’d always spend the day chasing snow on mountaintops so I could build a snowman. Maybe I’ll start that tradition up again when Rost is a bit older. Xoxo.

Cousin Jett

Our baby cousin Jett made a special visit just in time for the Montana Bennett crew to throw a big celebration for his very first birthday! I got to play photographer for an impromptu birthday photo shoot, capturing all the sweet moments of this milestone.

Rost had a blast hanging out with his newest little cousin. He’s already counting down the days until Jett’s big enough to join him in all sorts of fun adventures—they’re destined to be the best of buds!

Happy First Birthday sweet boy!

Two

Rost and I have been practicing singing Happy Birthday every night for nearly two months thanks to a current favorite book about a farmer’s birthday. Each song sung is accompanied by practice blowing out a candle. Given the amount of slobber and spit that first began this process I’m really happy we started practicing early enough to nail the actual day and not send drool flying across everyone’s cupcakes.

Rost was stoked when he woke up from his nap to discover my friend Becky, a favorite person of Rost’s, had snuck in from Missoula while he was sleeping. Soon after, Dada appeared back home with McDonald’s chicken nuggets and french fries. Rost’s day would have been magical had it stopped right there but his favorite people started funneling through the door. Each wave of people that came in sent him into shrieks of happiness. All of his favorite foods (chicken nuggets, french fries, Oreos, tomato soup, corn on the cob, strawberries, & a cupcake tractor), all of his favorite friends, a balloon, more tractors than you can handle, and fireworks = a pretty good start to two.

Turning two was a grand adventure, a gateway to a world that held countless wonders, and Rost embarked on this journey with wide-eyed innocence and the infectious laughter that defines toddlerhood.